🚫 When your endocrinologist says 'Dr. Google' (and other red flags)


Hi Reader,

I want to share something that happened recently with one of my 1-to-1 clients that might really resonate with you.

After struggling with her hypothyroidism and Hashimoto's for years, she finally got referred to an endocrinologist.

Like many of us, she pinned all her hopes on this specialist, thinking "Finally! Someone who can really help me."

But what happened next probably sounds familiar to many of you...

Instead of finding the help she desperately needed, she faced:

  • A specialist who talked over her
  • Dismissive comments like "Did you find that on Dr. Google?"
  • Someone who refused to work with her as a team
  • An expert who left her feeling angry, upset, and still unwell

Every appointment left her feeling worse, not better.

And here's the thing - this is NOT okay!.

Here's where things changed:

After working with me and getting support, she realised she deserved better.

I gave her the information she needed to push to see someone else and she found a new endocrinologist (yes, within the NHS!) who actually listened.

The difference was life-changing - she's now moving forward with a treatment plan that's actually addressing her symptoms.

This got me thinking... How many of us are settling for subpar care?

Especially here in the UK, where the quality of thyroid care can be, let's be honest, quite variable.

So I've created what I call the
"Thyroid Doctor Checklist."

Use this to evaluate whether your current medical provider is truly serving you:

  1. Respect: Do they speak to you respectfully and treat your concerns as valid? (Not like you're just another inconvenience in their day)
  2. Active Listening: Are they actually engaging with what you're saying, or just typing away at their computer without making eye contact?
  3. Human Connection: Do they treat you like a person with unique needs, or just another set of symptoms to process?
  4. Thyroid Knowledge: (This one might surprise you!) Do they demonstrate current, comprehensive knowledge about thyroid function? Fun fact: many endocrinologists actually specialize more in diabetes than thyroid disorders.
  5. Collaborative Approach: How do they react when you bring up research you've done or questions you have? A good specialist welcomes an informed patient rather than feeling threatened.

Here's the thing - and I really want you to hear this:

You have the power to advocate for better care.

You're not stuck with a doctor who dismisses you or makes you feel small or upset.

Just like my client discovered, finding the right medical partner can be the difference between continuing to struggle and finally starting to feel better.

What To Do Next:

  1. Run through the checklist above thinking about your current medical care
  2. If you're not getting the support you need, request to see another doctor or endocrinologist.
  3. Don't be afraid to "interview" your next doctor - you're adding them for your healthcare team
  4. Trust your instincts - if something feels off, it probably is

Remember:

Your health journey matters.

Your symptoms are real.

And most importantly, you deserve a medical provider who believes both of these things too.

Would love to hear your thoughts on this. Have you had similar experiences with doctors? Hit reply and let me know.

Here's to your health,

P.S. Sometimes the bravest thing we can do is admit we need a change. If this email resonated with you, save that checklist. Your future self will thank you.

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